Hi SC.
My god. It’s a night mare isn’t it?
I continuously worry that there are things that I don’t yet know about and am struggling to keep up with the payments on what I am aware of. Loans and numerous Credit cards. My wife was involved with 4 different loan sharks at one point but she has paid them off. Which I count my blessings for as they are the the worst type of people to deal with. Aside HMRC.
My only saving Grace is that I have equity in the house which I will be using part of to pay everything off.
I just cannot handle the worry or the stress.
It’ll put me back a few years but my god it’ll be worth it.
I do struggle with trust and pretty much everyone apart from my close family. It does that to you.
The crazy thing is that this goes on far to much. But I have only found this out since it’s happened to me.
Hang in there SC. Your not alone.
All the best.