Good morning GF
Thank you for checking in.
It’s been a strange week for a change.
My wife was out for pretty much 48hrs and I ended up picking her up at 05.00 on Saturday morning. Drunk on Absynth.
She been home since and we went out for the first time together last night to the local pub for a game of pool and a few beers. First time in a very long time.
It ended up being a good night and she seems good today.
However she did admit to having some coke when she was out Friday night which really upset me as it has set her back 3 weeks.
Apparently she found it in her bag when she was drunk. But I know that’s a load of rubbish.
The girls she was out with are over 10 years younger than her, have no children and no real responsibilities. That worries me a lot.
But I have to let her make adult decisions like you said. Whether that are good or bad.
I have put my foot down though as the emotional roller coaster of it all was breaking me down and I’m not prepared to do that anymore. I was worried sick about her on Friday and felt sick because if it.
She didn’t go to CA on Friday night because she was out with her cronies. Great friends they are. They know the situation and if they were actual friends then surely they would have encouraged her to go. Not indulge her in alcohol and potential the crap that got her where she is. Madness!!
I have said that she needs to decide on whether she wants to remain part of this family or go about her business with those who don’t really care about her and would drop her if things went south.
It’s up to her now.
Yes the book is a big read. I have put it aside for a few days but will get back into it tomorrow. Like you said it’s a lot to take in. But worth the time.
I am glad that you have the security that you need and I can relate to how hard it is to get there. But as you say you have that roof over your head. Which is so very important.
I haven’t had much time to go out this week as I have been concentrating on work and getting some money in. But I intend on getting out more next weekend.
All the best.
MJ