Hi I Hope you don’t mind me jumping on this post. My husband had been using cocaine for 16 years. Ripped my life, our children lives and everybody’s lives apart including his own. We reached breaking point but I don’t think that was the real reason for getting clean, I think it was more personal. He was deep in addiction spending hundreds a week.. debts, stealing from me and children disappearing for days on end. I could go on with the horror stories. He just decided one day that was it, cut everyone off and got a new job which also involved mandatory drug tests. Sounds really cliche but he loves motorbikes so got himself one. Kept himself busy like literally wouldn’t sit down and relax. I know in the real world it’s not possible but he quit his old job and spent 3 weeks at home and I believe that’s what saved him. He couldn’t lie and go out and buy drugs.. that time at home broke the cycle. Go easy on yourself & I wish you all the luck in the world.
