Hello jessie05
im so sorry to read this. You need to look after yourself, especially if he has been violent. I know being close to his family and them turning away from you but it’s their son, you have done everything for him.
Do his family actually know what he has done from you or just what he has said. I can’t believe you came home to drugs all over the kitchen and him passed out that must have been so upsetting. I would have gone crazy. They always say they will change and until he can prove it you do what you want on your terms, perhaps only stay over 1 a week and then gradually do more things together going out shopping or walking. Make it what you want and see how he behaves if that is what you want. Tell him you won’t put up with him taking drugs. EVER…….
My husband is still on cocaine, I called him out in April.
I’m trying to sum up the courage to leave him as he has mental health issues (which I think is mostly to do with the drug) of course he doesn’t he keeps telling me he is struggling mentally I need to help him, love him and laugh with him, but I can’t when I know he has taken it. My heart sinks and I feel sick. The last argument he said he would stop, this was in sept, and he would tell me if he slipped up!!! Well he took it Thursday night and he hasn’t told me. I said I wanted to know when he had a craving so we could do something to take his mind of it but agin I’ve heard nothing, I want to ask him but I know he will lie or get defensive and turn this on me. I make him unhappy, work is stressful, everyone wants from him, I know I’m being so stupid in staying, I do want out as I think I’m going to end up with anxiety. I wish love wasn’t this painful
I hope you can get on with your life, the way you want too.
are you family supportive with you and your friends.?
Take care lovely, stay strong to yourself.
love Navy