It’s nice not to feel so alone in this. Just found out my husband has started smoking weed again. I know that may not seem bad to some but he ended up in rehab after starting on crack and heroin too and hadn’t taken drugs for almost 20 years. Now I find the old friend he got weed from has messaged asking if he wanted to make extra money! He made his excuses and declined. But I don’t want him being dragged back into the circles he moved in. He’s always known drugs were a hard no for me. I’ve calmly explained how it’s made me feel and that it’s making me not trust him. I don’t really want to say it’s me or the weed but really it is. Am I selfish for that. I don’t know. We all need to look after ourselves though
