Hi guys
iv just read all your story’s and they all sound same like mine.
Let me give you all a quick intro of myself.
me & my husband have three children in total. My 1st two are from my previous partner and the third is with my husband.
we been together nearly 10 years now and i found 4 years ago that he is a heavy cocaine user and drinks Alcohol more or less daily. Smokes cannabis day & night every day no matter what.
now the problem here is that he won’t admit he has an addiction because that he takes one day a week off cocaine and drinking so apparently in his head that doesn’t make him an addict.
the emotional abuse and stress trauma i deal with only i know or my God knows.
i suffer from severe depression due to his addiction.
he tells me alot of porkies about other women he is seeing and then later tells me he only said that to me so I respect him and value him .
he makes me sick . His hygiene is poor , his judgment is bad and his health isn’t good either.
now we can sit and cry all day till the cows come home but still the situation aint going to change because it’s a cycle and we will keep suffering with the addicts and so will our children.
i have decided to go no contact and I’ve left him to it .
i refuse to put up with his abuse .
im doing whatever it takes to move on and i wish you all the best to get the strength to fo the same because you can’t fix them but you can fix yourself.