Stay or leave. There is more than 2 choices. There’s numerous choices everyday. Take the focus off of your spouse and the vodka line. Hard as it is (I’ve been there though the circumstances were different). Instead do something for yourself, i.e. see a movie, go for a walk, see a friend, go for a run, paint a room, take a class, etc. Whatever you want. One day at time – one moment at a time. The answers (choices) will come to you as figure it out – while you are calm and most likely – when you’re not even thinking about it.
