I’m so sorry Hays ???? my husband is addicted to cocaine too…and what I have come to realise when he is using , it comes above all other things that would be important to him…everything
We don’t have children so I cannot imagine dealing with that on top , I hope you can find support for yourself now … I’ve said on anothe thread this morning , we need help ourselves to break free from this cycle..it’s emotional abuse …the lies, deception, constantly being let down , mood swings , nasty comments , debts /financial ruin, list goes on doesnt it..
It hurts so much…I also value marriage as forever …I feel a failure .. it I know this is no way to live.
<p style=”text-align: center;”>I heard a good analogy the other day – they are drowning in the lake, and rather than grabbing you with both hands and getting out…they are drowning and taking us with them</p>
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