Hi everyone this is something I never thought I would find myself doing !! About 4 months ago I met what I thought was the man of my dreams after taking some 4 years to get over my last relationship we clicked immediately and he regularly began staying over which very quickly moved into basically moving in .
One day he takes his 2 elder children to London as they had a family funeral I was expecting him back mid afternoon . All throughout the day he’s giving me updates and that he won’t be long etc this went on long into the night with I’ll be 15 mins , I’m on way ..he never arrived .I was sick to my stomach I thought he might have had a car crash .later the following day I hear from his mum who says he arrived at her house at 1am off his face I was furious I ended it I am dead against drugs and was furious he just didn’t care .anyway silly me accepted his I’ll never use again promise and we carried on .ever since I have been suspicious .he would regularly go out for a cigarette and sometimes be gone for quite a while I started watching my ring door bell . You can see that on occasion a car is parked around the corner and is flashing his lights he then goes around the corner and goes back to his car . I looked in his car and found empty cocaine bags I was devastated I confontred him and initially he lied but eventually admitted he’d been doing it to block things out of his head .I have given this guy everything he had no stable home of his own I gave him this provided food washed his clothes and ge wasn’t really contributing financially .on top of this I found he had Also messaged another woman . I am just really struggling to understand why ge has done this he had the works at his feet and a chance to move on and he’s doing this ?? I’ve had to kick him out the week before Christmas and I feel terrible any advice grateful I really feel for all of you in similar situations
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