I really appreciate your side of thinking as it’s not something I’ve ever experienced myself so I just don’t understand . Sadly I believe he is still in denial he tells me he has an appointment tomo afternoon to sort himself out but looking back at his past relationships (4 children by 3 different mums 2 of the mums won’t allow contact but I don’t know the reasons why ???
it kind of stinks that this has happened before .and if he couldn’t do it for his marriage or children why would he do it for me when we’ve only been together 4 months .
I really want him to get help if I didn’t have a 14 year old at home I’d help him but I can’t risk having him around .
he has been begging me back for the past few days but I just don’t believe it’s actually for me it’s for what I provided nice warm home hot food and now I see I was unknowingly enabling him but not asking for financial contribution or any questions