Hey Mazza
god I feel for you I really do I have just made the decision to ask my bf to leave because of his cocaine use and cheating it’s so so hard especially this time of year as I now know he will be on his own Christmas Day but for me it’s the disrespect of it all .they need help we cannot save them .I’ve realised that in a way we are enabling them by providing them with a home food and working etc whilst they have spare cash to shove up their nose and don’t contribute to the household because that is the most important thing to them sadly . No one can tell you what to do but know that it will likely get worse for you if you stay and until he hits rock bottom he will do nothing to help himself it’s kind of tough love I guess .have you given him ultimatums? Offered to get him
help? I have done both hoping he’s going to get the help .I am struggling with the guilt of him being on his own at Christmas but we didn’t cause this , good luck with whatever you decide to do focus on yourself xx