Just read your post and can relate to what you have been going through I’ve been on the site on off for few years sadly with the same old story husband of 22 years an addict to cocaine I’ve had those debts and collectors long time ago now damaged my credit report and with no previous renting I’ve been sat on council for 5 years as homeless at home.I had my own business he worked with me but he was taking everything when he got out of bed I couldn’t keep going so I got a job and closed it down which he hates but I’m still there with a hope to eventually pass for a mortgage of my own .I’ve just got to my 6 year so bad debts have started coming off credit file which is a relief and I made a point of having all utilities and bills in my name paid to date I’ve never given him a penny in the last 6 years learnt hard way and it is hard the manipulation he used saw me withdraw from family and friends he’d say they had been talking about me and agree with him that I had issues I believed him and the horrible things he says or calls me you think he’s done his worst but no another shocker.
My husband has never been involved with anyone else.he is cheating on me though when he goes upstairs to sniff every night I can’t win coming second best I actually caught him last night because he thinks he’s hiding it he knows he has a problem but won’t stop for me I’ve been taking pictures showing his coke so he can’t deny call me a liar to me this is cheating.
I would give anything to have him sober like you’re other half I don’t see it happening For me.
I’m glad your partner has been sober for you and your baby and he’s helping more.trust is hard when it’s been broken have you spoken to him about it since he’s been sober or just when you found out ?
try explaining yes he’s doing really good staying sober and things are better but that your struggling with the broken trust you had?
Hopefully it could clear the air with a sober more honest response to show remorse and help you move on.
wishing you well.