I feel like reading your comments has really hit home with me.
I’ve been living with my husband’s addiction for years. Recently split but feel as though no one has my back apart from my family and friends but everyone on his side feels bad for him. He’s acting like he was truthful about his using and I just ended it. Which isn’t the case. I just think that being the parter of an addict is the most lonely place to be and you get the blame for everything when really you’re the victim of the lies, gaslighting, financial and mental abuse.
dobt get me wrong I know the addict is living in pain but it feels like they created all this but no one else really wants to help them and because it’s easy for them to blame you it feels like everybody else does too! Just wouldn’t wish it on anyone, even when you finally have had enough then it’s still making you feel guilty.
my heart goes out to anyone dealing with this ❤️
