This happened to my girl friend after a ten year relationship! She didn’t get pregnant but rent though he’ll because of me she tried everything to the point I could control my self. The best thing you can do is leave let him sort this out because the more you help him the more it want get better just leave him he have a choice then to to give it up all carry on. Sadly I didn’t and I regret everything that happened as I love my ex so much and I do anything to get her beck just a shame I didn’t have this way of thinking then x
