Hi JuliaA – In most cases, it will not matter what you say or do. This kind of thinking is co-dependent behavior. Nobody can control an addict. The drug changes their brain, changes their person, changes their behaviors, to the point that you will not even know them. They will become something else that will not care about the people that love them the most. Including their own infant children. Including their own self. Even if they quit this drug, they might never be who they were before.
