Today I have just told my partner of 9 years to leave, he has nowhere else to go and is having to sleep in his van, have I done the right thing, I’m shaking with guilt and have to stop myself from telling him to come back, I believe I have enabled him for a long time, lying for him and covering up his behaviour, my kids dont live at home but I’m constantly making excuses for his behaviour, am I wrong to want peace and quiet? I want to spend more time with my girls and one day grandchildren, I love him but how can I get over this guilt?
