AaronRyan20 – so sorry to hear what you went through, I went through similar thing myself and still grieving right now. He started becoming distant and gave up on our relationship about 6 months ago. I still can’t believe it, how he just seemed to change into a different person, I even question if I was the one with problem because it seems like I’m the only one who thought he’s changed. His family didn’t seem to think so. And now he’s with another person – looking so happy in pictures. I know he’s definitely using, yet seeing how he’s performing well at work and looking so happy with this new person – again make me question myself so much. Like you this forum has helped me so much in giving me reassurance that he’s doing me a favor by leaving me, but there are still some days when I can’t help but wonder how did all these just happened. Sorry I’m just ranting but I guess we can only try our best to take good care of ourselves. 🙁