Hi Tara b
I am currently in the same situation as you, 20 years together 2 kids , had a really good marriage, he was a brilliant husband & dad, he has completely changed left 3 months ago hardly bothers with me or the kids , but has time to drink and go to football matches , can I ask how are you now , I have good days and bad days, did you feel like your husband was emotionally starving you, I thought my husband was depressed and sick also , has he changed his behaviour or stopped ? Mine is in denial denies everything and lies , never would he do that , I hope you are feeling better