Hi everyone
omg, I can’t believe what I’m reading, you guys are going through so much.
I’ve sat here reading and digesting everything that my life has been, how do you put up with him leaving and go missing for days, supporting him for him to use and spend your hard earned money on drugs, when that can be used for your children and your home, especially now with the cost of living, how disrespectful he is.
sorry for the lashing out, I guess I’m feeling angry for you all and upset. I wish my husband would just leave me, I wish he never begged me to come home, I wish I hadnt come back, I wish I wasn’t in this situation. My circumstances for not leaving right now are complicated. I’m just going to keep pressing him to see a professional and ask to see this professional so I can ask some questions. Also I can keep an eye that he is seeing the professional.
@fazey, your son deserves better than a dad that keeps going missing. I wish I had the answer for you. I feel for you and your children. Xx
@m my husband says to me he has a mental condition (by polar) but I read that this goes in hand with an addict as it messed their brain up. Not sure if this can be reversed if they come off it. I just wish he could be clean for at least 3 months to see how his body and mind would actually be then perhaps we could go down the route of mental health help. I’m so confused.
@bubbles how long has your husband been diagnosed with a mental health issues? Do you think this is an excuse? I only ask as my mind is confused with it all,
@lorry how are you? You must be in turmoil I do hope your daughter is doing ok and she is strong enough to realise what she did and gets help from the GP. I’m praying for you. Keep strong. Xx
Thinking of you all, xx