He definitely needs to find the time. I don’t know where you are located or what his working hours are like, but there’s meetings on all the time, and online ones if he could even log into on his phone. If he’s had time to buy drugs and use every day in the past, he’s got that same time he could be spent at meetings every day. I think it’s hard for them to have the guts to show face at meetings when they’re loaded or have relapsed, that might be part of why he’s avoiding it. I know mines has in the past. I hope he makes the effort soon.
I just keep thinking when I read all these posts here how lucky these men are to have such amazing, strong, supportive women who have done everything they can to try and help them, even when they aren’t getting much in return. I really wish they would see what they have and fight their way out of this x