Lillesunshine
Thank you I was beating myself up about my son having to leave my home.
likewise I am in recovery from bowel cancer, three major surgeries in two years, plus my husband becoming disabled during this time after having a serious stroke, these events were not of our choice.
Our Sons do have choices
Like you my hard earned life savings have been spent on him, Rehab, counselling, bailing him out of debt etc etc
But in all honesty he hasn’t changed, the lies the verbal abuse, the blame he heaps on me.
He has destroyed my sense of self worth, I know hand on heart I have tried my best.
He is all about him, no one else matters, so I am separating myself from him he’s 32 years old
Legally I owe him nothing, I’m not obliged to give him a home, food, gym membership etc etc the list goes on and on
Time for him to he helps himself, it’s emotionally tiring for me, I’m broken totally, for the sake of my husband and daughter and me I need to let go.