Sorry you are going through this Hell. I have a similar story and have known for 5 years now. Last night I woke up sobbing about it. I recommend that that you change your user ID to something anonymous. I’m in a better place emotionally then I was when I found out, but it still hurts and probably always will. Allow yourself to be upset, but also take steps to help yourself accept and find your way through it. Take care of yourself and try to make choices for yourself that you won’t regret later. I started therapy sessions recently and wish that I would have when I first knew about it. We are still together, but I don’t feel like I am past it yet. I wonder if that is even possible. This is trauma.
