It pains me to read this and say this.. but I echo everything the members above have said. My husband and I have been together 13 years, every single time I let my guard down he does it again and ruins what we have. It’s torture!! Pure, painful and utterly exhausting torture. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy! We have a beautiful family and a (from the outside) good life.. but he destroys it day in day out with his lies, manipulation and manic episodes.
only you know what you are going to do but please think about it in depth. Trust your instincts and look after yourself. We genuinely only get one life, please don’t waste as many years of it as we have xxx