Thank you for your reply, also this isn’t my real name. Did his affair result in a child? And dose he still see the child? I try to talk to my husband but he shuts me down, it’s like he’s told me now so just get on with it, he’s never been one for deep conversation but I still have questions, he’s always going on that he has to do the right thing but so far it just seems to be by this child and not his wife and three children he put through hell during his addiction, when he first told me a few weeks ago he expected me to end the marriage but I have fought so hard through the addiction to keep us together as a family and I’m scared of him giving someone else the best of him, the one I knew all those years ago before addiction, this is what I have fought for all this time and now this. Did you get referral for therapy sessions through your doctor? And is this just for you or as a couple?
Thank you