Hi, I also echo everyone else’s comment, I’m 30 years into my marriage and I can honestly say the past 20 years has been the hardest of my life, my husband’s addiction got worse as my dad was dying of cancer, I’m suprized I didn’t turn to anything! But I’ve never touched a drug in my life I don’t even drink so how me and my hubby have survived 30 years is beyond me. The truth is you can’t help him, he’s got to want to do this himself and if he sees no problem then he’s in denial, I pushed and pushed for rehab but the doctors only put my husband on early intervention, it was crazy how can almost 20 years be early intervention! But with constant calls I got him into pathfinders who then found a rehab, I did all the phonecall stuff as my hubby is a typical bloke but he actually wanted the help which made things slightly easier.
