<p style=”text-align: left;”>Hi, thank you for your reply, yes he goes to meetings at least 3 times a week and he did have a sponsor but unfortunately he couldn’t commit so he’s currently looking for another one, in rehab he got to step 5 but will need to start again with a new sponsor, he’s got daily books he reads religiously, although he’s has changed now he’s not how I thought he’d be, he tells me it’s a selfish programme but thinks he takes this to another level, he’s been In addiction for so long I just feel our whole marriage is based on a lie especially with the cheating and a child, I’m really struggling to understand as he tells me there was no feelings towards this woman and there never will be it’s just the child but it’s like he’s told me now and just expects me to get on with it and if i try to talk to him about my feelings he gets snappy which then ends up in a row, it’s so hard and I’m sorry your also going through this xx</p>