<p style=”text-align: center;”>Hi gaddict, thank you for your positive story, its reassuring that if is possible.</p>
My problem isn’t him relapsing as I think he’s got a really good mindset and is putting all the support in place it’s the damage he’s caused to me and our children my cheating on us and having another child! He’s just confessed to this after 5 years! I’ve always supported him in absolutely everything I’ve never failed him or let him down in 30 years but this has hit me hard! I’m constantly asking myself how can someone who’s supposed to love you and has done nothing but right by you, hurt you so badly, yet he tells me it’s a mistake but now it’s a Constant reminder when he sees this child and the mother as the child is only 5! We have 3 children who he also told but he says in recovery he’s got to leave his past in the past! I’ve honestly never been so hurt in all my life and he put us all through hell during his addiction and even accused me of cheating on him! I now know that was his own guilty conscience but still hurts really bad, I do honestly what to get past this but feel right now I never will ????