I’m really sorry to hear about the struggles you’re facing with your mum’s alcoholism. It’s evident that you care deeply about her wellbeing and want her to get the help she needs. Unfortunately, as you’ve mentioned, your mum’s situation has become dangerous not only to herself but also to others, particularly when it comes to drinking and driving and attending work under the influence.
It’s important to acknowledge that you can’t control your mum’s choices, and maintaining your own mental and physical wellbeing is essential. You shouldn’t have to bear the burden of lying to family members, missing your nursing placement or work, and struggling with your own life.
In the UK, there are several resources available that could potentially help your mum and provide support for you and your dad. One option is to visit websites that can help you locate rehabilitation facilities and support services for alcohol addiction in your area.
In addition to this, you might consider reaching out to the following organizations for further support:
– **Al-Anon** (www.al-anonuk.org.uk): Al-Anon offers understanding and support for families and friends of problem drinkers, whether the person is still drinking or not.
– **Alcoholics Anonymous** (www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk): AA offers support for individuals struggling with alcoholism through a 12-step program and group meetings.
– **Nacoa** (www.nacoa.org.uk): The National Association for Children of Alcoholics (Nacoa) provides information, advice, and support for everyone affected by a parent’s drinking.
It’s essential to prioritize your own wellbeing and seek support from friends, family, or professionals. Remember that you can’t force someone to change; they have to be willing to take the necessary steps themselves. It’s crucial for you to focus on your own health, education, and future.
Please know that you’re not alone in this, and it’s commendable that you’re reaching out for help. I hope that the resources provided can offer some guidance and support for you and your family.
Take care and stay strong.