It sounds like enough is enough 🙁 easier said than done though right? I am so sorry to be reading this and that so many of us are in such similar situations… it hurts my heart. My husband is the exact same. Blaming everything and everyone for everything… I have come to learn that he has portrayed me as an absolute nightmare to everyone. I’m truly shocked, I kind of feel like I have been married to a complete stranger for 5 years. It’s very, very sad.
I’m sorry I haven’t been able to offer any more guidance or advice to you, just know that you’re not alone. I’ve called in sick too many times, exhausted and broken. It’s finally time to build xx