So sorry to be reading these comments. I just want to wave a magic wand and fix every thing. My husband is the same – nothing is his fault, I’m portrayed as the nagging wife for being rude enough to wonder where my husband is at 5am!! Although he assures me he is 40+ days clean… he’s been hanging out with his coke taking friends this week…. and I’m getting shouted at for not trusting him, hmmmm! Tonight he isn’t answering calls… so likelihood is it’s going to be one of those nights where I have no sleep and go to work tomorrow morning wrecked. I keep saying to myself ‘this is so unfair’ or ‘I really don’t deserve this’. I’m trying to support him, but constant lies and arguments make it impossible.
I can’t offer any advice or solutions, but please know that you’re not alone x