Hi both
thank you for replying. It’s so tough isn’t it. Some days I really do wonder why I had kids which makes me sound mean but I am so tired by this all. I thought he was doing okay as there were no major crises, but now his drinking is slowly increasing again and he is now drinking after work. I am so scared he’ll lose yet another job because he’ll get drunk and get into trouble or even worse. I am dreading Christmas as I will spend the whole time on edge wondering if he will make a scene. I don’t want to sound ungrateful as I have a lot to be grateful for, but I just wish he would get some help. He just thinks he can manage on his own and that he doesn’t have a problem.
I really wish that both of you are managing okay at the moment, and although I have no advice to give, I am sending support and wishes.