Hi peaches
So sorry to hear you are also suffering the consequences ????
It’s so hard to keep our resolve. My husband has broken my boundaries multiple times, each time I try and stand firm, he will find a way to manipulate me and I’m black, and the hell returns. whilst he isn’t violent he’s very emotionally and financially abusive and the chaos n stress is now at a level I fear will kill me…
It’s the emotional manipulation you have to try and resist… Women’s aid or the domestic abuse helpline might be able to help /sign post u to local services if you are in UK. I’ve come to realise after 5 yrs if this now I need outside help, it’s so hard to do this alone
Wishing you strength , and hope you find safety , peace and positive wellbeing xx