Hi Abbeca1,
I agree with thistim3, you cannot bring up a child in this environment. Don’t let him normalise this, it’s not safe for you and definitely not for your child.
Please remove yourself and your child from this relationship before it’s too late. In another year your child will start to understand too much and could be permanently damaged.
Yes you love him, but it’s not going to get better, only worse ( believe me I speak from experience, my late husband was an alcoholic and it got progressively worse, I had to leave with my Son ).
Think about it, the fact that you are sending out a message on this site is enough to tell you that this is a serious problem. Get out of it!
Wishing you all the strength in the world, think of your little girl, she does not deserve to be damaged by his behaviour.