As sad as this is, I think I have a break through with my mum finally f**king doing something now my brothers venom has been directed at her.
Friday night, brother comes in drunk and being annoying.
She was doing personal care for disabled brother, and putting him to bed.
Skag head brother says he will lift disabled brother into bed but continues reading messages from filipino whores online, so mum put him in bed.
skag head says ”there was no need for that, I said I would put him in”
mum says she wasn’t going to wait around, she is tired and just wants to go to bed.
mum starts clearing away nappy pads and things she uses for personal care.
as she’s doing so, skag head brother starts saying out loud:
”why is she like this?”
”women like that will drive you mad”
”dad must be glad he’s dead”
Mum came back and said ”look, I wasn’t waiting around for you to do anything, I’m minding my business”
skag head carries on with same sh*t words.
Mum called him a wa**er
He then scream ”c**t”, ”dumb b**ch” about 4 times each and slammed doors.
Made reference to some other stuff.
Mum told me to call the police, I started to, then he went to lay down.
The whole family sat on eggshells for an hour after, and I felt so horrible for her.
She was taken aback, I think. Not least because just 30 minutes before, she had given up her takeaway for him that we had ordered without him as he had been out on the pi**
I thought she was a mug for doing so, and I told her at the time for this reason.
Anyway, I said to her she should get an NMO and occupation order.
I explained what they were and how she could file for one.
She asked if she could file for one anonymously.
I said no,
but she’s clearly scared of being the bad guy, but I think more scared of him and also of how low she’s been feeling lately.
I’ve said to her, if she’s doesn’t want to file it I will.
I’m going to keep mentioning it.
Interestingly, over Easter break, he had a similar altercation with my other brother who had questioned him about why he kept helping himself to food meant for Easter.
He screamed at him, wished him dead, spat racial slurs about my brothers partner and a whole slew of other sh*t…they haven’t been speaking.
This just further compounded how we all fee and have been feeling over the last 20 years.
As always, faux remorse, slowly starting it all back up again just days later, it’s like groundhog day.
Fingers crossed for this NMO because it’s the only way out before something really bad happens.
I really dislike him, and no matter how much I try and fight it, I’ve realised how much respect i’ve lost for him, we’re all just playing a game here to stop ourselves being subjected to any further vitriol.