Hi, I posted myself, but about my son. I don’t want him to progress to having a girl-friend/wife kids who he can destroy too. You already know what you have to do, you can’t love your kids properly in the atmosphere you describe. Even if he is not using heroin your relationship has broken down. You do not say how old your children are, but a happy mum is more important to have around than an anxious scared one, and it does not sound like he comes back bearing gifts or kindness. Leaving now does not necessarily mean no contact, and as they get older they can decide whether he is a good person to know for themselves. Good luck for the future.
