Hello Fred, I have only just read your post. I see you wrote it back in August, I wish more people used these sights so you could’ve had a response.
You may not even read this but I was wondering how your situation is?
My relationship of ten years ended in November due to the stresses of his Heroin abuse. He now lives in a flat with a new girl who is also a user.
I don’t know what is more difficult, living with a user and trying to help or it being taken out of your control and not being able to help at all.
I feel your pain, I still love him very much and always will. It’s so difficult to watch a loved one ruin themselves.
Take care