March 2, 2014 at 4:03 pm
#8075
cant-take-no-more
Participant
Aww feel for all us parents having to go through this hell….But the biggest thing for me is I am and have been his enabler..giving in, money, buying clothes , paying his debts etc…. well not anymore..I will not let him drag me down with him… Its hard, but my son is 23, and as such an adult…he makes his choices…the next thing for me is to kick him out….and the way I feel at the moment, It wont be long!!! Be strong. and look after YOU….its their choice what they put in their bodies….its their consequences….but its still our hearts that get broken! Im so glad I found this site….just talking makes me feel I am not alone…so if I can support someone else along the way, its all good…..take care all you mums and dads, and partners of users….xxxx