yes it comes as a shock to realise all the times you thought you were being a good mum and helping them out with cash they were just using us. What you have said is exactly how I feel, I cant let my 22 year old son drag me down with him, I have worked hard all my life, its not right and its not fair that I now have to use my cash to line dealers pockets.
It is very hard to kick them out, I have tried and he gets abusive and short of getting him by the scruff of the neck how do I do it. I managed to get him out a while back for a week but he did try getting back in by hammering on the door and putting his foot in. its just a nightmare that I want to end, I want my son back. xxxx
