Hi and happy birthday, as I read your story it was like listening to my own life, where you have three sons I have three daughters, and my youngest has put me through the same things, I would love to say its all sorted now but the truth is it looks like it never will, the only saving grace is she has moved in with me for the sake of her child, and it means I can kind of keep an eye on her, but living with the lies has not been good I know how you feel about wishing you could just forget about him but you never will, he’s your son and there is a bond no matter what, like me just don’t forget the other boys as it probably affects them too but just don’t tell you so as not to hurt you anymore,. I hope I haven’t deppressed you that’s not my intentions, I wish you well and hope you find some peace in your life. Lily1 x
