[lily1]

Thanks ctnm, how bad it must be too not see your grandchild, I suspect the mother know it hurts you and just wants too use your granchildas a weapon against you, how selfish, but you will know this I’m sure. I like you am finding that because I’ve been talking to others on this blog, that I too can cope better, its amazing but it really does help to talk too others, I’m not saying that it sorts anything out at home, but feel a bit different about things now, maybe I’m just kidding myself, but hey who knows,. Let me know how things go with your son, its not good to think of them in prison, hopefully it may make him think!!!! Good to talk too you.xx