Hi Susie
Thank you for your messages knowing that other people are going through the same as me is in some ways comforting.. my son would disappear over night and not answer his phone leaving me in turmoil trying to find him. Since I’ve moved away he has done this twice with his dad calling me saying he hasn’t come home. I’ve come to realise that he always comes back and to try not to worry to much. I haven’t spoken to my son since Monday after he said some hurtful things, I am trying to give him the space to try and deal with me moving away. His dad had told me he is working every day and I’m going this will continue and will help him. Last Friday he got paid £190 and had spent it by Sun. It’s hard not to call him and just tell him I love him but his dad thinks it’s best I leave him to it.
My emotions are all over the place. Wish things were different but I guess I have to accept my realty. Reassurance that I’m doing the right thing helps.. Susie in return I am here for you should you want to talk xx