Thanks Brian – we’re doing most of what you’ve said but he is threatening to kill himself if we don’t pay his dealer (again!) which we know is emotional blackmail, but is hard to resist. As you say you love them unconditionally but there comes a point where you have to let them realise their mistakes. We have backed off to some degree but he just keeps pushing what’s left of the boundaries and hurting us and his brother and sister. I’m glad you’re situation seems to be improving and hope it continues. I’ll keep you updated. It’s good to talk!
