My sons father has never bothered…Only turns up when things are on an even keel….My partner and I have done everything for him, and he constantly throws it back in our faces….I can barely look at my son without feeling anger..he knows full well where I stand……now all the family and extended family are on the same page, and dont give him money, he depends on his money alone….when he is here I watch him like a hawk, never leave my bag unattended, and check if he goes upstairs by making an excuse to go up for something…for your own peace leave him to it…Im not saying give up on him, but be there IF & WHEN he needs you….hope this helps xxxxx
