Sad and tired….I no what you are trying to do. Whilst my son was working I was paying his car insurance and petrol money just so he could keep his job. I knew if he lost his job then it would all fall back on me financially. I done this for 2 years and now he has lost his driving licence due to his foolishness. He lost his job because it was driving and now he is constantly on me for money. His dole money that he gets once a fortnight gets spend in 1/2 days. It is a daily battle with him. Now he actually threatens me and last night smashed a hole in my living room wall. Like you I am just so tired of this. I have learnt one thing and that is whatever you try and do for them it is never enough. He wants money daily and while its ok for some people to say no and stick to it with my son at the moment I just no that it will end up with him actually attacking me. That’s the truth. It has come to this. Something has to happen to actually stop all this. I just cant do this on my own or my way anymore. It will come to a head soon.