Hi Janeyj……how old is your son? My son is 22 he came home last night and when I told him he had letters demanding payments which I had already made for him. He said well your problem, you got my card, you sort it. I felt like chucking the whole flippin lot at him. I went out for the evening and had to come home as I didn’t trust him, he told me he had my dog out late evening, he never ever takes her out and I worried what he was doing with her, it crossed my mind he would sell her or give her away…..how sad is that. He got paid yesterday and because he has taken time off work he is 300 down so cannot pay me my money back which I have paid out to stop debt collecters turning up but at least his immediate bills are covered. I am waiting for him to start demanding money……I sometimes feel like I am at breaking point, it seems like a never ending battle to keep on top of his debts and he doesn’t even care. He knows he wont have money and cant go out this month and maybe not next month so it will be interesting to see how long it takes for the threats and begging for money to start. While my son has had no cash he has been staying in but as soon as he gets hold of money that’s it…….
