Hi…Im also relatively new to this site. People on here are very supportive it must be just due to the bank holiday weekend
My eighteen year old son is taking drugs, alcohol and gambling… I too didnt tell people at first but it started to impact on my health, my job and other relationships…I know its difficult but you have to stop covering for him,,
I really think you should give him some choices, maybe others will advise differently but twelve year olds are not daft and very quickly learn a lot more than you think.
My ex husband was drinking heavily when my boys were growing up and was violent and aggressive I wish I had left him sooner my son was ten when i did leave and now he is following the same path but worse…Please give him an ultimatum for your own sanity and for your daughters future. I am going through a hell of a time with my son. your gonna need to be really strong x x