[sad-and-tired]

no you cant,and neither can I, I am such a mug…..he has now gone out, he will blow the last bit of cash he has and then blame me for giving him his card…. this time I have to let him lose everything, it may be the only way he is ever going to learn. I feel so bad because at the minute I cannot bare to even look at him, I am so sick of him and his debts………….he says if I want him out to find him somewhere to live, he means pay for somewhere, why should I he will drag me deeper and deeper into debt. He doesn’t seem to realise that in the real world you have to pay your way.