Hey hun…Wrapping my arms round you and congratulating you for ending your misery…….Whether his probation officer has said it or not (which if he has, then he obviously knows nothing about drug abuse) ignore it…I can sense your hurting, but it will get better…We never stop loving our kids, but we can make a stand and say enough is enough…….DONT let anyone make you feel like rubbish…YOUR NOT!!!!! It seems your story is my story …….the abuse the lies the stealing, the vile words of hate……..I choose not to be part of it, and for now am in a much better place. My son goes to court this Wednesday……he wants to move down south to start fresh and is making ago of it with his ex…whether it happens is up to him…ive heard it all so am not holding my breath…..ONLY OUR SONS CAN STOP THIS MISERY…..Dont forget that xxxxx here if you need me xxxxx