I have to agree with Lucy….Kids around a drug user is more harmful for their future….and he is literally taking the food out of their mouths to feed his drug addiction….You may love him, but [Im sure you love your children more…..Personally I think you are putting your kids at risk…..and it will only worse…Those that use drugs are good at lying, stealing and telling you what you want to hear..I hfate to say this but by the sounds of it he is dragging you down, and at the moment you are letting him….DONT pay his debts……and make sure you have your bankcard on you at all times…….otherwise you will be left with more debt….sending hugs..stay strong!!!!
