Aww Lucy…how very brave of you…Its almost easier to carry on and try and muddle through. As a mother of an addict, I know too well I cant help him…Ive tried for 4 years…ive slowly pulled away, dont give him money, and he can only visit when he isnt on his crap….All the lies, deciet, stealing, just got too much and I was a nervous wreck,…BUT, I am stronger and know he needs to want to stop..when that time comes I will be there all the way supporting him..Its like ive lost him to this demon at the moment, but you can adapt to the situation, and I think you are right in wanting the best for you and your kids……This may be hard hunni, but its far harder being with a person on drugs who sucks the life out of you..literally!! Good luck, stay strong, and take things day by day….hugs xxxx
